The term “domestic
violence” includes a broad range of violent acts committed by one member of a
family or household against another. It often refers to the mistreatment of a
child or spouse, and includes not only physical harm but also threats and
verbal, psychological, and sexual abuse. The relationship of the abuser to
the victim is the key distinction between other assault crimes and domestic
violence. In India, domestic violence is always believed to be inflicted on
women. However, during personal interactions with many males in society and in
the organized setups such as industries and offices, it was observed that men
also suffer from domestic violence. Due to stereotyped gender roles, it is
hardly believed by society that a woman can inflict violence on men. Many
courts also commented on false allegations of domestic violence by women. Men
are still not ready to speak of this violence against them and they are
ignorant about any legal help to avoid this.
Comparison of India and Other Countries
The
prevalence of spouse/intimate partner violence (51.5%) in the latest Indian
study2 was
found to be higher than data collected for domestic violence under partner
abuse state of knowledge project (PASK) from the USA, Canada, and the UK
(19.3%).
Domestic
violence was recognized as a criminal offense in India in 1983. The offense is
chargeable under section 498A of the Indian Penal Code.
Prevalence
Scarce
research data on domestic violence against men are available in the scientific
literature.
However,
according to a recent study, 51.5% males experienced violence at the hands
of their wives/intimate partner at least once in their lifetime and 10.5% in
the last 12 months.
According
to the National Family Health Survey, 2004, this violence is not always
inflicted by the female partner/wife but many a time by a male relative of the
wife attacks or threatens the man. When physical violence and threats against
men by wife’s relatives are taken into account, an estimated 3 crore men are
facing domestic violence in India.
In
a study conducted by My Nation along with Save Family Foundation (Delhi) on
domestic violence against men, between April 2005 and March 2006, 1,650 men
were interviewed and their personal cases looked into. The study concluded that
Indian women were the most abusive and dominating.
From
all over India, 98% of the respondents had suffered domestic violence more than
once in their lives. The study covered Indian husbands from various
socioeconomic strata, but the bulk of the respondents, according to the
researchers, came from the upper middle class and the middle class.
Nadda
et al found much higher physical violence, 35% and 26.9%, respectively,
against women this reflecting that Indian women are much less physically
aggressive than Indian men. Gender symmetry does not exist in India for
physical violence.
Types of Violence
Domestic violence has been recognized across the world as a form of
violence that affects a person’s life in every way, physically, mentally,
emotionally, and psychologically, and is a violation of basic human rights. In
a recent study by Malik and Nadda, the most common spousal violence was
found to be emotional followed by physical violence.
Physical Violence
This can include slapping; pushing; hitting by wife, her parents, or
relatives; or throwing objects like utensils, cell phones, and crockery at the
husband. In physical violence, slapping was identified as the most common form
(98.3%), and the least common was beaten by weapon (3.3%).
Only in one-tenth of the cases, physical assaults were severe.2
Psychological Violence
In emotional violence, reported 85% abuse against the men was
criticism, 29.7% were insulted in front of others, and 3.5% were threatened or
hurt. It can also be in the form of mental abuse such as constant threats to
the husband and his family under false allegations of dowry and domestic
violence.
Types of Crime Committed Against Men in India
At
home or at the workplace to avoid punishments or to get some rewards, men too
can be involved in sexual activity by force. In many states of India, a young
man with good qualifications and income is abducted and forced to marry without
his consent. False rape and other charges such as molestation are also common.
Since law and society always traditionally favor females as the weaker sex,
many a time, false complaints of sexual abuse/rape are lodged against men. This
is true regarding cases against men under 498A (domestic violence) and false
dowry cases, and the same was expressed by various courts during their
proceedings.
Effects of Domestic Violence Against Men
Any
violence affects life physically, mentally, emotionally, and psychologically.
It is also a violation of basic human rights. Unreported and unnoticed violence
against men may lead to denial in accepting the family, divorce, depression, or
suicide in extreme cases. It has been observed that suicides were more in
married men as compared to separated/unmarried men. According to WHO (2002),
women think more about committing suicide, whereas men die by suicide more
frequently. This is also known as a gender paradox in society.
According
to WHO, exposure to violence can increase the risk of smoking, alcoholism,
and drug abuse; mental illness and suicidality; chronic diseases such as heart
disease, diabetes, and cancer; infectious diseases such as HIV, and social
problems such as crime and further violence.
Legal Issues
Despite
the data available, suggesting violence against men, no law to protect men is
yet to be formed by the legislature. All laws for controlling domestic violence
consider women as victims. Antidowry laws Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961, and
later Section 498A passed by the Supreme Court of India already show the
concern and asked to stop the “Legal Terrorism” in the form of misuse of 498A
and the necessary changes to be made by the Parliamen
Need for Gender Neutral Laws
In
cases where men are falsely accused of violence or dowry, a law which can
address these false allegations is the need of the hour. Human rights and
gender equality should include both men and women. Domestic violence should be
considered as spousal violence and must not be differentiated due to gender.
Domestic
violence act in India is for women only. Studies show that men are also the
victims of violence at the hand of women. Hence, necessary amendments
addressing violence against men are suggested.
